"Why this cold war?"
Hi... Sorry for the long gap in filling our glyptic art. My pc had some serious problem and could not be used for a long time...
Anyways...Thot of posting something relating to relationships and the communication skills that keep them alive.
Basically most of us are good communicating officially, especially in college while giving presentations and also at office when speaking to collegues. Taking me as an example my communication skills improved a lot because of the various opportunities i got to indulge myself in public speaking which changed my personality totally.
But all this might help us in the long run in improving our career n going up the ladder...but is this enough?The essence of life lies in communicating with people at home, our relatives n friends... (lets come to friends a little later)
Speaking about relatives... do we really have a good rapot with them?Why is it that most of the time there exist a cold war even among siblings especially after getting married n having a family of their own? The same bros n sis would have definitely have had good understanding when they were young.
Where does this start? We were able to accept each other as they are when we were young.. When do we start finding fault with each other? Why are we not able to show the same amount of love n care that we did while we were young? Is it because new priorities take over or is it something else?
There r many questions in my mind for which i am very keen in getting answers as i don wan to get into the "cold war" myself a little later!
Moreover in the previous generation there were around 8 or 9 children in every family so may be they can afford to stay away from one or two with the support of others. This generation can definitely not afford it as there are hardly one or 2 in the family and it becomes very important to guard the relationship else there will not be anyone around to turn back in times of need leaving us all alone.....
i totally agree to whatever u say. but when it comes to parents n kids the scene is totally different. u have the thot of"my mom" and "my kid" always running in ur mind that u don mind to forgive each other for the diference in opinion.
but when it comes to bro n sis the situation of "my bro" n "my sis" exist only until either of them gets married n settled in life.
even here i am not generalising things there may be many exceptions... but im sure that bonding is never the same n tend to reduce as days pass by as new priorities take over...
wat do u think can be done about this?
how do u think even this relationship can be kept alive?
Posted by
Saraswathi |
7:33 AM
Dear saras,
I agree ur point but it happens.U r a matured being now. When self sustinice grows the dependence on other get reduced. Again when dependence gets reduced our relationship with others get dull. But thats too philosophical. try to enjoy your time with your parents and peers.
There can be none without this problem.but remeber one thing.. They are for us and we are for them.
Have a nice week.
Posted by
Anonymous |
4:57 AM